KATHAMRITA ( The way Ramaqkrishna said It) = After Shree ma

Leela : the joy of a game is in its lasting : If the boxing game is over with te first knock , would you be happy to have boutght the ticket ?
If you do not renounce all , how can you realise the Absolute! If you can not forget all others,how can you be with your lover !
One receives , reacts and give back according to his input, reserve and individual giving capacity
The wife sleeps on the same bed with her husband and child but gives back love to each iun different way.
Even negetive thoughts about others wiill drag you down. The time spoilt in finding fault is potential time lost from life.
Modern science and Samkhya yoga work on similar path, -the path of discrimination , rejcection or acceptance. Discriminatory knowledge is the sword for Soul -protection.
If you pray for all, you are automatically included. If you pray for yourself , you exclude the world.